There are a few gaming things I don’t do but would really like to. The reason I don’t play them is either lack of knowledge, overwhelmed and intimidated, or just don’t have the time to get involved. I would like to change this and any help or suggestions would be appreciated.
1. Pen and Paper RPG. I’m old-ish. Oldish enough that I was the right age to play when all the D&D stuff started up. When I was 19 my girlfriend knew I was interested in it and bought me all the books and modules she could afford. I think in an attempt to force me to socialize but I still never played. Mainly because I never found anyone else that played it. Later in my late 20s I became friends with a guy whom I found out played regularly and I asked to join. He was very reluctant telling me, “Man, it’s nerdy. I mean REALLY nerdy.” Finally one day he called me and said they were going to play a certain night but again greatly stressed that he didn’t think I would like it and it was super super nerdy. I took it as a hint that he would be uncomfortable with me there and bowed out. I even worked at Raven Software for 8 years which is a great haven for the nerds and still never played a game even though they had many game nights. A few years ago I was trying to help out a friend that was creating a pen and paper RPG and bought his game rulebook and it sits on my bookshelf unused. I’d really like to experience playing a game if for nothing else to just understand it as a game designer. I’d especially like to try the game I bought, Darkest Age. So far I see no prospects.
2. Eve Online. I don’t know what it is about this game. I have subscribed to it 3 times and I’m so intimidated and overwhelmed by it that I literally just sit in the hangar with my ship. I know nobody that plays so I have no help. A few times I have flown around the space station and then docked again. The complexity and vastness of the game blows my mind to the degree that I let my sub run out and don’t renew. Then later my curiosity rises and I sub again and repeat. It’s the fear of getting lost, losing my ship, and dying in the middle of nowhere that has me spooked. As I understand it you have to insure your ship and clone yourself to avoid this but what if I die a lot out there?!? I bought Elite Dangerous and find I have been having the exact same experience. Space games really get me, I so badly want to be a part of it but just can’t get out there. If there are any players out there willing to give me a hand to get me started please drop me a message.
3. Dwarf Fortress. I REALLY want to get it but I don’t get it. I hate to say it but I think it’s the lack of visuals that is throwing me. Just looking at the symbols I feel like I’m failing a math test or attempting C++ programming. The concept behind it sounds so interesting and as I understand it’s inanely detailed. I have downloaded and attempted playing several times but I feel I don’t really know what’s going on. I’m moving things around and I think I’m doing things but I’m not really sure I’m doing it correctly. I’ve watched a few YouTube videos explaining but still not certain. It would be so awesome to have it running while I’m working so I could replace watching YouTube or listening to music with something more constructive. But maybe that is the disconnect, perhaps it requires my full attention. I really don’t know. Do you know any good videos or guides you can share?
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